It was really nice weather today, so I went down to the park this evening watching some of our UTM students play basketball. When one of our students started cussing because he didn’t agree with a foul called on him, another student who was standing next to me, Dorian, said, “Y’all be frontin‘ when ya’ll at church.” What he meant, for those unacquainted with street talk, is that here is a guy who says he loves Jesus and goes to things like our Hype Bible study, but he’s no different than anyone else. He just talks the talk but still lives like those around him. He puts on a mask when he’s a church, but it’s only skin deep.
I thought for a few seconds about Dorian’s comment, then I replied, “I don’t know, Dorian. I think everyone who goes to church is frontin’.” He looked at me and responded, “Yeah, you’re probably right.”
“Now hold up,” you may be thinking. “Are you bashing on church goers? Are you accusing all of them of being hypocrites?”
On the contrary. See, that’s not the statement I’m trying to make. I know for sure that while some people who attend church are hypocrites, not everyone is. In fact, a good chunk of them are not. The point I’m trying to make is this. When we accept Jesus as our Savior, we are given the power not to sin. That doesn’t mean that we stop sinning, though. This is why Paul tells the Ephesians to “put off” the old self and “put on” the new self, like putting off and on clothes (Eph 4:22-24). If we stopped sinning when we believed in Jesus, we wouldn’t have to be instructed to put off/on. Neither would we be told to live as children of light, not as we did when we were in darkness (Eph 5:8). So yes, to an extent, people who follow God are frontin’. That’s not what makes them different.
What makes them different is that they progressively front less and less (2 Peter 1:8). Yes, I know I just combined street lingo with theological lingo, but it works. If we love God and follow him, we have less and less to front about. We are being changed on the inside. We are finding what pleases God (Eph 5:9). And yes, we may not have all parts of our lives conformed perfectly to Christ, but we need to act in ways that deny we’re not there yet. Some may call this frontin’. But I think the direction of that phrase leads us astray. Rather, what we’re looking at is self control. Self control does not deny the fact that I would rather act out. Instead, it controls how I do act even if it’s not how I want to act. The Bible has lots to say about self control. It’s a fruit of the spirit (Gal 5:22-23). Self-control is part of being of the light and not darkness (1 Thess. 5:4-11). It’s not easy. In fact, it’s extremely hard (1 Peter 5:8). How do we live self controlled? What enables us to do so? God’s grace!
11For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. 12It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, 13while we wait for the blessed hope—the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, 14who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good. (Titus 2:11-14)
Yet we have part in it too.
13Therefore, prepare your minds for action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed. 14As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. 15But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; 16for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.” (1 Peter 1:13-16)
5For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; 6and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; 7and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. (2 Peter 1:5-7)
So God followers, are we frontin’? Absolutely. But what are we frontin’? The fact that we haven’t realize God’s grace to change our lives? Or the fact that we’re still not perfect, but God’s grace has given us self control so we can please Him with our actions and attitudes more?





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